“Momma always said life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.”
(If you haven't seen Forrest Gump, here is a quick recap)
Tom Hanks immortalized the man known as Forrest Gump, showing us the events of the world from the innocent perspective of a man with an IQ of 75.
Although this movie showcases events in history such as the Watergate Hotel scandal, President Kennedy’s assassination, and Hurricane Carmen, this story centers around Forrest and his pure, chaste love for his childhood sweetheart, Jenny, which is what we're going to be exploring this week.
Forrest fell in love with Jenny the moment she let him sit by her on the bus on his first day of school. Forrest testifies years later that he had “never seen anything more beautiful in his entire life”. She is the first person that showed him kindness (besides his momma), and he develops a deep attachment to her, the girl with the “most beautiful voice in the wide world”.
I’ve watched this movie many times over, and each time, I realize something more about the character of Forrest Gump that I didn’t realize before. The first time I saw a clip of it was when I was five (just the “Life is like a box of chocolates” scene), and I didn’t even realize that Forrest was mentally handicapped. In fact, I only remember thinking that the lady sitting by him on the bench was being rude to him, only answering him with minimal language. As I got older, I began to realize more of the emotions that other characters were feeling, such as Lieutenant Dan when he legs lost his legs. I started recognizing more of the songs of the period (Simon and Garfunkel, the Doors). I also realized that although Forrest was capable of loving Jenny completely and irrevocably, she didn’t love herself.
This is evidenced by the scene in which Jenny is getting grabbed by some men at the strip club, and Forrest beats them up. Jenny flies into a rage, telling Forrest to “stop it” and that he “can’t keep trying to save her”.
“I can’t help it.” Forrest drawls, “I love you.”
“Forrest…you don’t know what love is.” Jenny replies snidely.
This is a statement that sticks with Forrest throughout the whole movie, moreso than being called “idiot” or “stupid” (“Stupid is as stupid does.” Sorry, I had to). In a poignant scene near the end of the movie, which takes place decades after Jenny told Forrest he didn’t know what love was, Forrest gets quiet and says, “I'm not a smart man. But I know what love is.”
And indeed he does. Throughout the film he constantly displays unselfish love for the people in his life. He doesn’t think twice when he runs back into a Vietnam forest that is being bombed, because he knows his “bestest good friend”, Bubba, is in there. He jumps off his shrimping boat and swims to shore when he hears that his Momma is sick. When he bumps into Lieutenant Dan, a now-wheelchair bound veteran, Forrest spends New Years with him. Even after Jenny refuses his marriage proposal and takes off, Forrest runs to her side when she calls for him. I can’t think of a scene where Forrest isn’t caring for someone or loving someone around him, even though, technically, it should be vice versa, since he is mentally handicapped.
And that’s all I have to say about that. :)
(Okay, I know you have memories or a favorite scene from Forrest Gump, so leave a comment telling us about it.)